Kelvin Fagan from XPF

[Alan.F]

Thought i would post this over here as he has gone missing and his family are obviously worried


http://forums.xpowerforums.com/showthread.php?t=52635

[stamford]

Blimey! I don't know the man but it sounds like he's planned this, hope it is nothing serious and just needing some thinking space. Never easy trying to read someone when they are suffering in silence due to lifes ills.

Hope it turns out for the best, keep us posted.

[Dan1971]

I reckon - having read about it - that it's a planned disappearance.

Just hope that he makes contact with someone who at least can tell the family he's safe and well.

Couldn't a "computer guru" , find the history on the PC even though it's apparently been deleted ?

[ZS]

I reckon - having read about it - that it's a planned disappearance.

Just hope that he makes contact with someone who at least can tell the family he's safe and well.

Couldn't a "computer guru" , find the history on the PC even though it's apparently been deleted ?

Depends how though he was with the deletion, and what has been done on the PC since... :D

[grimmy]

Jeez i hope he turns up okay his family must be at their wits end

[ZS]

Jeez i hope he turns up okay his family must be at their wits end

hes left 4 good not coming home left a letter for mum 2 read hes told us 2 sell the car and house

So I guess thats that? Hope he's OK though, known him for years through the MG scene - Its a surprise that he has done this...

[Supercharged_Z]

Wow.

i would say anybody that ups and leaves with no money, clothes, car or anything is probably not that well in the mind, unless he has people to go and stay with or somthing..

i do hope hes ok, life sucks sometimes

[Steves Cleenz]

you dont know Ross, if this was planned then im sure he has money and clothes

[Maxfly]

I know a few people who have done this sort of thing, sometimes it's a feeling of having to get out as they feel suffocated and once they get out and kinda 'reboot' themselves they go home, others feel so much better they stay away but resume contact. It has lways been down to their mental condition in my experience! Hopefully everything will work out for the best in this situation!!

[stamford]

At least he hasn't done a 'Reggie Perrin', that would have been harder for the family to take. Still hurts all the same for his loved ones, guess he may have been at breaking point and something had to give. Time will tell.

[Dan1971]

It's a brave step.

The front pages are splattered every week with people who lose control and end up killing their families.

I don't know how the brain works sometimes ...... :no:

[grimmy]

I find this kind of thing really sad.Talking to someone may have helped remove some of his stress.Why can't us blokes just get over our stupid bloody male pride and ask for help when we need it.I just hope he sorts himself out and becomes happy and contented again he sounds like a nice bloke who just needs a bit of help.

[andys1981]

i agree grimmy,sometimes ye get dealt the **** card,life aint easy,just gotta roll wi the punches,hope everything works out for him,its a shame on the family