Kicked in the teeth.
Firstly i need to apologise to anyone who i had arranged to swap buy visit or do anything with as recently my heads been all over the place following a break up from my fiance and finding out that while i was working or being told to go to goodwood breakfast club so she could have a girly day out with her mates she was actually sleeping in my bed with a 19yr old boy:baby:. how much more insulting can it get!!! He's only 10yrs older than our daughter and she thinks i'm gonna be happy to let him into the childrens life. not as long as i can breathe is he going anywhere near my children. Anyway rant over i'm back and focused on myself now.
Obviously not that focused else i'd have noticed i put this in the wrong header. should be off topic. |
bad times:/ you think you know someone then something like that happens. youll meet someone better soon enough mate. hope everything else is okay
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Hope it all works out mate, sounds like you've had a sh1tty time.
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That's just cr@ppy
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Well i got myself a new house and she can keep the old one. If you still have the yellow zs i think now is as good a time as any for me too bury my head in a nice project.
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Nice thread title........and its what she needs............
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thats good:)
yup shes still sat waiting on you, no rush though |
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I feel your pain, been there myself although it was with someone who was meant to be a friend.
My advice is to cross every tee and dot every eye. Make sure you sort every aspect of contact with your kids and house and everything. Feel free to drop my a pmail if you want to ask anything and just to clear your head. James P.S. it gets better - 11 years on and I have a wonderful wife who indulgies my passions, all my kids dislike their mum and 4 of the 5 have left her to live with me at some point, the other one just moved in with her boyfriend. |
Dude :) I know its not what you want to hear, but it could be much much worse. Trust me I know!!
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I just know she's going to try and claim half my business and still want me to pay maintenance on top as she has nothing now, i've worked my balls off getting to where i am today and i did it all for my family and this is how i get thanked.
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Then give her her half (£5) Then after a set time you buy the business back... lol |
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lol that might not be such a bad idea zs
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The other peice of advice is to only talk to her about stuff you have to, kids and money, do not offer advice or argue and if she says something don't argue back.
Let her think you're not interested, it is so cruel ;) |
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Pm me if you want a chat, I'll cheer you up by telling you 1% of what happened to me... :) |
Dont worry mate' I Ditched My Miss's The Other day... fed Up of Constant Nagging And arguing' Thought not putting up with this soo Sent her packing!
& She Moaned about my car' That apparently Its My First LOVE Ha! But Hey Ho' Keep Your Chin Up Mate :) |
It's hard to be cruel as she just lost her grandad and her dads in intensive care but i'm not making it easy for her to spend time with him thats for sure.
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Haha that was one of her las comments to me, that if i wasn't at work i was outside polishing my car and gave it more attention than i gave her.
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Bad news mate but you did say fiancee didn't you and not wife. In which case I don't see your business being a issue.
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Sorry to read this Adam, think I would take legal advice asap.
Treat her politely, remember the kids, easy to say but so hard to do. The pain and anger will fade with time, the kids will be there for a long time. She has made a big mistake and one day will realise what she has thrown away. |
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yeah we weren't married, luckily but she's been by my side since day 1 of the business and i'm sure when it comes to court she's going to claim she sacrificed a career for my business.
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but if she cheated on you doesnt that go against her
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i thought that, turns out that your aloud to be unfaithful if your the woman in the relationship, basically it's the guy that gets shafted even if he's innocent.
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There's no such thing as "Common law marriage" and she will find out she has very few rights! Hope every thing works out for you
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madness, lets hope so eh sharron(p.s. nice to see your still about with loz on here)
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As long as i've got the kids the rest of it's replacable.
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Sorry to read this m8 but watch what yourr posting on here incase she knows your login or joins up
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I was always told I put my car before her, when I was married. Hey I was a car nut the day we met, so she should have known. Anyway, divorced for 6 years now. No hard feelings she just lost out to my cars. I live with my son, who is just as much a petrol head lol..................
Come on, a car doesn't get pmt, periods. Doesnt chuck your dinner in the bin etc. You got a lot of people here, who understand. We like a little family..........Strange family mind ................. |
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Common law is not a myth and is used all the time as a legal standpoint. As for women having more rights, while I cannot go into my case in a public forum I can say if the situation was reversed it would have been resolved 5 year ago. The ONLY reason it is still going on now is that she is female!! Anyway, much off topic now... and I am sure in Adams case it will all resolve itself amicably and quickly... at least I hope so for his sake! |
i don't think she'll register on here, she may try to use my log in though, have to remember to change my password.
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common law doesn't count for anything, she would only be entitled to the assets that had both yours and her signature on, eg: mortgages, business's and deeds to any other assets, joint bank acounts and savings. She can however claim maintanence for the kids until the kids reach 18 or leave home, which ever comes first.
She can't claim anything over a career sacrifice as that was her choice. She should count her self lucky you let her have the house! She will soon realize what a **** up she has made, believe me. Any way mate i'm sorry to hear of your break up and hope it will lead you to greener pastures. |
sorry to hear your bad news ,hope it all works out for you mate
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a 19 year old wont stick around for too long doing daddy duties when his mates are gonna be out on the **** every other night, she will come running back soon and then you have the upper hand, time is a healer and revenge is even sweeter!
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Bad news mate - you know where I am, assume you're still in same area?
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my ex was doing exactly the same thing while I was working offshore. She was going out loads, going to the gym, out every weekend with "the girls" then wasn't at all interested in doing any of that when I was at home.
I snapped one trip I was out here and left her the day I landed. Left my PS2, hi-fi and a load of cothes behind but they can be replaced Luckily the only ties I had with her was a pet Bearded Dragon... I miss it sometimes but I've got a far better horned Mountain Dragon now I know your pain dude, things will get better no matter how much it feels like they won't |
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