Kicked in the teeth. - Page 3

Adamzs180 · 02-07-12, 08:38 PM

It's hard to be cruel as she just lost her grandad and her dads in intensive care but i'm not making it easy for her to spend time with him thats for sure.

Adamzs180 · 02-07-12, 08:41 PM

Haha that was one of her las comments to me, that if i wasn't at work i was outside polishing my car and gave it more attention than i gave her.

peterzs · 02-07-12, 08:53 PM

Sorry to read this Adam, think I would take legal advice asap.

Treat her politely, remember the kids, easy to say but so hard to do.

The pain and anger will fade with time, the kids will be there for a long time.

She has made a big mistake and one day will realise what she has thrown away.

Adamzs180 · 02-07-12, 08:54 PM

yeah we weren't married, luckily but she's been by my side since day 1 of the business and i'm sure when it comes to court she's going to claim she sacrificed a career for my business.

Ritchy · 02-07-12, 08:55 PM

but if she cheated on you doesnt that go against her

ZS · 02-07-12, 08:57 PM

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Originally Posted by Ritchy

but if she cheated on you doesnt that go against her

You'd think wouldn't you... 5 years later and im still going through the courts!!! Lol

Adamzs180 · 02-07-12, 09:01 PM

i thought that, turns out that your aloud to be unfaithful if your the woman in the relationship, basically it's the guy that gets shafted even if he's innocent.

ZS · 02-07-12, 09:07 PM

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Originally Posted by Adamzs180

i thought that, turns out that your aloud to be unfaithful if your the woman in the relationship, basically it's the guy that gets shafted even if he's innocent.

How true is this!!!!!!

SharronB · 02-07-12, 09:11 PM

There's no such thing as "Common law marriage" and she will find out she has very few rights! Hope every thing works out for you

ZS · 02-07-12, 09:21 PM

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Originally Posted by SharronB

There's no such thing as "Common law marriage" and she will find out she has very few rights! Hope every thing works out for you

Sorry I have to disagree with you there... I have been heavily involved with family law for the last 6 years (5 years in court)

Common law is not a myth and is used all the time as a legal standpoint.

As for women having more rights, while I cannot go into my case in a public forum I can say if the situation was reversed it would have been resolved 5 year ago. The ONLY reason it is still going on now is that she is female!!

Anyway, much off topic now... and I am sure in Adams case it will all resolve itself amicably and quickly... at least I hope so for his sake!