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02-07-12, 08:13 PM
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I feel your pain, been there myself although it was with someone who was meant to be a friend.
My advice is to cross every tee and dot every eye. Make sure you sort every aspect of contact with your kids and house and everything.
Feel free to drop my a pmail if you want to ask anything and just to clear your head.
James
P.S. it gets better - 11 years on and I have a wonderful wife who indulgies my passions, all my kids dislike their mum and 4 of the 5 have left her to live with me at some point, the other one just moved in with her boyfriend.
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02-07-12, 08:16 PM
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Dude  I know its not what you want to hear, but it could be much much worse. Trust me I know!!
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02-07-12, 08:50 PM
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Bad news mate but you did say fiancee didn't you and not wife. In which case I don't see your business being a issue.
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02-07-12, 08:53 PM
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Originally Posted by welshone
Bad news mate but you did say fiancee didn't you and not wife. In which case I don't see your business being a issue.
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Common law... it means because they were living as a married couple she is entitled to ask for half...
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02-07-12, 08:17 PM
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I just know she's going to try and claim half my business and still want me to pay maintenance on top as she has nothing now, i've worked my balls off getting to where i am today and i did it all for my family and this is how i get thanked.
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02-07-12, 08:19 PM
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Originally Posted by Adamzs180
I just know she's going to try and claim half my business and still want me to pay maintenance on top as she has nothing now, i've worked my balls off getting to where i am today and i did it all for my family and this is how i get thanked.
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Sell the business to me for a tenner, then I'll hire you on as an employee... lol
Then give her her half (£5)
Then after a set time you buy the business back... lol
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02-07-12, 08:27 PM
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lol that might not be such a bad idea zs
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02-07-12, 08:31 PM
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Originally Posted by Adamzs180
lol that might not be such a bad idea zs
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You need to do it sooner rather than later if you do it... use the excuse you had to buy a new place etc
Pm me if you want a chat, I'll cheer you up by telling you 1% of what happened to me...
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02-07-12, 08:29 PM
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The other peice of advice is to only talk to her about stuff you have to, kids and money, do not offer advice or argue and if she says something don't argue back.
Let her think you're not interested, it is so cruel 
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02-07-12, 08:38 PM
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Dont worry mate' I Ditched My Miss's The Other day... fed Up of Constant Nagging And arguing' Thought not putting up with this soo Sent her packing!
& She Moaned about my car' That apparently Its My First LOVE Ha!
But Hey Ho'
Keep Your Chin Up Mate
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