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03-07-12, 07:18 AM
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Sorry to hear this Adam. Stay calm and measure your responses, it'll help you in the long run. She will be alone soon as it'll fizz out like they all do and I bet you the house she will be pleading for you to return...............do not cave in. If she has done it this time when will the next one be?
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03-07-12, 10:12 AM
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Sorry to hear that this has happened - wish you all the good fortune in getting everything resolved.
lots of good advice so far though 
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03-07-12, 12:10 PM
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Location: Redditch, Worcs
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I believe the common law marriage has recently been abollished, don't wanna drag that point out though as i normally get things wrong , and this is a rather sh1ty situation to find yourself in! Bad times.....
Best advice is to seek guidance from those in the know, be it solicitors or citizens advice etc..... And good luck getting things sorted mate!
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03-07-12, 05:17 PM
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Join Date: Feb 2008
Location: Scottish borders
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Bad news mate ... Hope you get everything resoolved. Very sad when kids are involved ....
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03-07-12, 08:57 PM
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Join Date: Dec 2011
Location: Wells, Somerset
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Sorry to hear about this fella. Hope it works out for you and the kids. As everyone has said, the lad wont hang around for long. Be strong and be the better person. If you fancy a beer sometime gimmie a shout! (Im only up here for a few more weeks though!)
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04-07-12, 03:10 PM
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Join Date: Dec 2011
Location: Wells, Somerset
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Sorry to hear about this fella. Hope it works out for you and the kids. As everyone has said, the lad wont hang around for long. Be strong and be the better person. If you fancy a beer sometime gimmie a shout! (Im only up here for a few more weeks though!)
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Me and the Mrs parted company today so I dont know how much longer I'll be oop north for.  so might not be able to honour my offer of a beer!
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04-07-12, 04:09 PM
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Join Date: May 2008
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Sorry to hear Sonic, hope you can sort it out.
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08-07-12, 11:53 AM
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Location: Crewe
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quick response to the msg's left on here. firstly thanks for the advice. i turned up with a few vans to reclaim my belongings the other day and she had been drinking and having a "gathering" with friends to celebrate her engagement, which they can't tell his parents about and plan to get married in a secret ceremony next month. either this was said to get a reaction from me or they are a pair of idiots. anyway after 4 hours of abuse and backstabbing name calling i got my belongings, smiled and went on my merry way happy in the knowledge that she is loosing and she knows it.
Secondly to gary, i'm still in cheshire just moved to nantwich now, a much nicer house 3 beds garage and decent sized garden for the kids.
And finally sorry to hear your news sonic, who gets custody of the dog?
Anyway, I've got a meeting with solicitor tomorrow to discuss residency for the children so hopefully that will go well.
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08-07-12, 12:14 PM
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Location: West Sussex
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Sounds like a great gatecrash. Just keep your cool like you have been at whatever doesn't go the way you want it, it will help in the end.
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08-07-12, 12:44 PM
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Best of luck =)
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