some1 just kill me now

roverdave81 · 14-08-11, 12:18 AM

Great times just found out that my misses well x misses has dump me as she has been seeing a new bloke for the last two months and im havin to leave as she has had me removed off the rental aggreement 7an half year js over like that if it wasnt the fact we hav a 2year old id hit the jack d bottle hard but it gunna be hard not seeing my little girl everyday I cant belive I didnt see it coming sh1t times here I come

kkman · 14-08-11, 01:32 AM

forget this man, time will kill pain. she just doesn't deserve your love. you need to move on. everything will be better in the future.

Smokey · 14-08-11, 02:35 AM

mate, I feel for you. Been there 10 years ago where my daughter was taken away from me when I was only getting to know her. It does get easier but it takes a long time. Dont want to dishearten you, but being realistic.

It does get easier though once you replan your life and make things work for you.

talkingcars · 14-08-11, 04:47 AM

She's a bitch, get yourself settled and go for residency of your daughter.

Dan1971 · 14-08-11, 05:54 AM

Gutted for you mate .....

shcKr- · 14-08-11, 09:20 AM

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Originally Posted by talkingcars

She's a bitch, get yourself settled and go for residency of your daughter.

This.
Pick yourself up, get settled and fight for residency of your daughter!

talkingcars · 14-08-11, 09:25 AM

The short term is pants but in the long run you'll be better off, I know I was.

Of my 5 kids 4 of them did or do live with me, the 5th was going to but was fed alsorts of lies by her mum, it is definatly the best thing I did for the youngest 2, their school attendance went from 75% (it was so bad the judge thought there was a mistake) up to 98 and 100%, both started learning properly and will be decent adults when they get there.

Good luck.

daytona365 · 14-08-11, 09:34 AM

Feel for you................Its not easy having to start again. My split wasn't as painful as yours ( mutual split) but it still hurts after being together for 13years.

I got my own flat, the kids see me whenever and of course I got my ZED.

There is always light at the end of the tunnel.............

peterzs · 14-08-11, 10:39 AM

What a shame to read this, know you must be gutted, I would and everyone else.

Got to think of your daughter and try and not lose your cool, remember everything you do could affect future contact with her. So if it were me, no matter how hard, try and be civil to the Ex, whats done is done.

Difficult to believe now, but the pain and loss will fade with time and no matter what, the daughter is and will remain your daughter. So think of her.

Life can deal a really crap hand at times.

ZS · 14-08-11, 12:14 PM

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Originally Posted by shcKr-

This.
Pick yourself up, get settled and fight for residency of your daughter!

Did this 4 years ago, kids were given to me 2 years ago, and now they only see my x-wife for an hour once a fortnight... Still going through the court system, but this is due to her own actions... Give them enough rope and they will hang themselves.

Above all the one thing that has helped me (the judge has said this to me too) is that I have not lowered myself to her level and have been 100% grown up with no name calling or fighting at all... even walking away when she gets aggressive infront of the kids etc... I've let her do what she wants and she's digging her own grave.